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vacationIf I am going to weigh things, I can say I am still single legally. We don’t have any proof that we are already married. However, we treat each other as husband and wife. We feel that way since we have been living together, which is not yet acceptable in our community.

But, in our being together there are instances that we just want some space to give each other a break. It holds true whenever things turn soar between the two of us. And I think it’s very simple to just go away since there is no paper that holds us both. I think I am really bad for thinking that way.

Okay so here is it. I read an article about singles holidays. I find it super interesting. In my age, I am still looking forward to visiting places and making friends with other people. Even before I met her, I used to dream of going to places in Europe, USA, Canada, New Zealand, Australia, Central and South America, Africa, China and Asia, and the Middle East and many more.

I feel envious towards my brother because he is very single and he can always go to any SINGLES HOLIDAYS he wants. Two years ago he went to Japan by himself. I forget how long he stayed there; all I can remember is that its year 2007. He came home with so many stories and memories worth to treasure.

I never experienced that ever in my life. I feel that it is not too late to go on Singles Holidays even though I am not so single anymore. Yikes! I already feel guilty while I am writing this post. Going on this kind of vacation should be simple. But, I find it very difficult. I don’t know why. Every time I think about it, it feels like there is a force that is telling me not to. Even though I am still writing my thoughts, I’m already having second thoughts towards it.

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One Response to “vacation with myself only”

  1. I think going on a vacation on your own [married or not for that matter], is actually a good idea. I always hear things like it’s good for partners should do some things on their own and not always together. I personally have not done that so I can’t say how it feels…maybe I should try it? LOL….

    Visiting you here after a long while. Life’s been hectic so blogging [esp hopping] has to take the back seat.

    I hope all’s well.

    Juliana